I like the fact that we have the option these days and that we dont feel tied either way.
I was a stay at home mam, my choice to begin with as i hated the idea of leaving my daughter with anyone but family and they were in short supply as they were all working.
When mark came along 19 months later he was born with all kinds of problems bless him and from then on my husbands and my life were mapped out for us.
We both had to stay home to look after him and our two asthmatic girls, but im not sure id want to change that if i could do it again, at least until they were about 10 yr old or something like that.
I do often wonder where life would have taken me if id had more of an oppertunity to work and meet new people xxx