I know i would feel very dissapointed and let down, but once id gotten over the initial shock id like to think i could sit down with them and discuss what was best for them all round.
I wouldnt want my kids lives tied down with kids and to be fair i wouldnt make it easy for them if they decided to keep it, i would make them realise just how much hard work it is and not allow them to drop them off just to go party ect.
Luckily i never had to go through that so its kinda easy to say how i think id be, could have been totally different if it had happened, but i do pride myself on good relationships with my kids so we would find a way, either way in reality xxx