Im quite happy to put my hand up if im wrong and will appologise no bother.
Forgiveness is a different kettle of fish, if something happens and is dealt with there and then, then its forgotten there and then.
But old grivences die hard, those that are left to fester, those i deem unacceptable yet i have to put a brave face on and play the part because im not petty enough to continue to let it affect my life or my families life. xxx